Events
Every event here removes the pressure to perform. You’ll always know what to expect, and each gathering is designed to help you show up as your real self.
Structured Social Hour - February 2026
About This Event
Free group event for neurodivergent autistic, ADHD and AuDHD adults seeking safe, meaningful friendships.
If you want conversation that feels easier, safer, and more predictable, join us on the last Sundays of the month for the Structured Social Hour.
This is your place to practice connection with confidence and meet others who value meaningful conversation.
We know it can be difficult to know what to say so we practice structure that helps you show up as your real self.
What To Expect
→ Clear prompts so you always know where to begin
→ Gentle timing so you never feel stuck
→ Brief one on one conversations with meaningful topics
PLEASE NOTE: To keep the one-on-one format running smoothly, we can’t let people in after the first five minutes. We appreciate your understanding and encourage you to arrive a little early.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 1:50pm CST.
📌 Connections deepens when we can both see and hear you. For that reason, cameras are required to be on to attend.
Making Sense of Mixed Messages
About This Event
Making Sense of Mixed Messages is a 30-minute session designed to support AuDHD and neurodivergent adults in navigating confusing, contradictory, or indirect communication with more clarity and confidence.
What To Expect
Brief learning on one specific mixed-message pattern and how it typically shows up in everyday interactions
Explore why these dynamics create doubt, confusion, or cognitive overload
Interactive Q&A and practice with simple scripts for real conversations that align with how you think and communicate
This Is for You If
You often leave conversations feeling confused, doubting yourself, or replaying what was said
You notice mixed signals like indirect requests, emotional pressure, or shifting expectations
You are AuDHD or neurodivergent and want communication tools that match how you actually think and process
What You’ll Walk Away With
Greater awareness of when you are carrying more emotional or conversational load than intended
Clearer ways to respond without overexplaining or shutting down
More confidence in choosing when and how to engage without pressure
TOPIC: Accommodation and Growing Resentment
When accommodation becomes a default response, unspoken needs and unequal effort can quietly build resentment and confusion in relationships. This session focuses on recognizing early signals and responding with clearer internal alignment during ongoing interactions.
How to notice when accommodation shifts from choice to pressure
How to identify internal cues that signal growing resentment
How to respond in real time without overexplaining or self-abandonment
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌 Become a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to join the conversation.
Unmasked Conversations
About This Event
Free group coaching for AuDHD and neurodivergent adults seeking authentic, guilt-free relationships.
This Is For You If:
You feel like your relationships are fake but don’t know how to stop performing.
You hate being guilt-tripped but are uncomfortable speaking up.
You find it hard to express yourself because you don’t want to be judged.
You’re not alone.
Get help here.
Every 2nd and 4th Saturday of the month, join Unmasked Conversations.
PS: Patterns of Possibility community members enjoy Unmasked Community Conversations every Saturday with priority to bring topics of discussion.
What To Expect
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
Sessions are limited to just 10 attendees for an intimate discussion.
Two to three people will have a chance to bring a challenge they’re facing.
Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
What You’ll Walk Away With
Whether you come with a question or come to listen, by the end of this session, you will:
Understand why certain interactions feel draining and what to do differently next time
Leave with one clear, practical adjustment you can apply immediately in a real relationship
Experience what it’s like to be heard without judgment in a supportive, structured space
This session is designed to help you move from managing yourself around others to showing up with more ease, clarity, and self-trust.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 This is a judgement free space.
Guided Coaching Moment
About This Event
Be the lucky member of the Patterns of Possibility community who receives 30 minutes of personalized coaching in supported by your peers.
Get Guided If
You want a single, focused coaching experience without an ongoing commitment.
You are willing to practice vulnerability and demonstrate what it looks like to work through your challenges.
Be A Supportive Participant If
You are willing to learn from your peer’s experience while providing encouragement.
Community members have access to a Guided Coaching Moment on the 1st Mondays of the month.
What To Expect
In this half-hour session, one Patterns of Possibility community member will get actionable guidance they can use right away.
Sessions are limited to just 5 attendees for an intimate atmosphere.
Guidance comes from the coach only.
Additional encouragement and understanding will come from peers.
A shame-free space to be honest and real.
What You’ll Walk Away With
Whether this is your moment or you’ve come to listen, by the end of this session, you will:
Understand why certain interactions feel draining and what to do differently next time
Leave with one clear, practical adjustment you can apply immediately in a real relationship
Experience what it’s like to be heard without judgment in a supportive, structured space
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 This is a judgement free space.
Making Sense of Mixed Messages
About This Event
Making Sense of Mixed Messages is a 30-minute session designed to support AuDHD and neurodivergent adults in navigating confusing, contradictory, or indirect communication with more clarity and confidence.
What To Expect
Brief learning on one specific mixed-message pattern and how it typically shows up in everyday interactions
Explore why these dynamics create doubt, confusion, or cognitive overload
Interactive Q&A and practice with simple scripts for real conversations that align with how you think and communicate
This Is for You If
You often leave conversations feeling confused, doubting yourself, or replaying what was said
You notice mixed signals like indirect requests, emotional pressure, or shifting expectations
You are AuDHD or neurodivergent and want communication tools that match how you actually think and process
What You’ll Walk Away With
Greater awareness of when you are carrying more emotional or conversational load than intended
Clearer ways to respond without overexplaining or shutting down
More confidence in choosing when and how to engage without pressure
TOPIC: Did You Really Want Me To “Just Listen?”
Requests to “just listen” can carry unspoken expectations that create confusion, misalignment, and emotional strain during conversations. This session focuses on recognizing what is actually being asked and staying oriented while responding.
How to notice when listening requests include hidden roles or expectations
How to identify internal signals that indicate pressure to perform emotionally
How to respond with clear presence without taking responsibility for regulation
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌 Become a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to join the conversation.
CEOS Business Networking Hour March 5, 2026
About This Event
We are business owners who think differently.
At the CEOS Networking you'll meet a mix of late-identified autistic, ADHD and AuDHD entrepreneurs and allies committed to personal and professional growth through collaboration, structure, and actionable insights.
At each event we invite a speaker to share 10 minutes of insight that includes at least one practical step attendees can apply immediately.
What to Expect
We meet for 60 minutes.
Doors open at 9:50am CST / 10:50am EST
We start promptly at 10am CST / 11am EST
→ 10 Minutes - Speaker
→ 5 Minutes - Q&A
→ (2) 15 Minute Breakout Sessions
→ 10 Minutes - Announcements & Shoutouts
Meet Your Hosts
Coach Lee Hopkins, Social Connections Coach for Late Identified Autistic and ADHD professionals.
Becca Block, Neuroaffirming Executive Function Coach for adults who want to get things done without panic, people-pleasing, or procrastination.
Who This Is For
If you’re a business owner who thinks differently, you need to be here.
Building a business is hard.
And the way your brain processes information doesn’t make it any easier.
You can understand what to do and still struggle to do it consistently especially when there's a change in energy, clarity, or context.
→ There’s nothing wrong with you. ←
Most of the standard advice around growth, productivity, and consistency simply doesn’t align with how your mind and nervous system work.
Notice the pattern, make a new possibility.
Stop following advice that wasn't built for you.
Visit the CEOS Business Networking Hour...
→ connect with other business owners with lived experience
→ get support that actually fits how you think
→ walk away with an actionable step to help you succeed today
Our guest speaker is Lauri Smith.
Lauri Smith is a soulful speaking and untamed leadership coach who helps loving rebels lead and communicate from intuition instead of pressure.
From her talk you will walk away with a simple 3-step practice you can use immediately to support authentic, embodied, unforgettable speaking.
Who We Are
We are an action-oriented Business to Business focused networking group.
We emphasize building and maintaining relationships that open up areas of new business for each other.
At our core, we believe that Collaboration and Education bring new Opportunities that lead to our overall Success.
Who You Are
You are a business owner who wants to build a “like-brained” supportive community.
You are goal oriented and outcome driven.
You are curious, enjoy learning, and appreciate authentic professional connections.
You can commit to spending at least 60 minutes of focused time transforming yourself and business relationships.
What We'll Do Together
Collaboration - Build trust and gain support on growing your business.
Education - Learn best practices in your business based on how your brain works from your peers and industry experts.
Opportunity - Create relationships with referral partners and get more introductions to decision makers.
Success - Grow your business the way you want.
Share Your Expertise
Have a valuable tip or technique that can help your fellow business owners grow?
Apply to speak
We record our speakers. Watch them on YouTube.
Unmasked Community Conversations
About This Event
Patterns of Possibility group coaching for AuDHD and neurodivergent adults seeking authentic, guilt-free relationships.
This Is For You If:
You feel like your relationships are fake but don’t know how to stop performing.
You hate being guilt-tripped but are uncomfortable speaking up.
You find it hard to express yourself because you don’t want to be judged.
You’re not alone.
Get help here.
Community members enjoy Unmasked Community Conversations every Saturday with priority to bring topics of discussion.
What To Expect
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
Sessions are limited to just 10 attendees for an intimate discussion.
Two to three people will have a chance to bring a challenge they’re facing.
Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
What You’ll Walk Away With
Whether you come with a question or come to listen, by the end of this session, you will:
Understand why certain interactions feel draining and what to do differently next time
Leave with one clear, practical adjustment you can apply immediately in a real relationship
Experience what it’s like to be heard without judgment in a supportive, structured space
This session is designed to help you move from managing yourself around others to showing up with more ease, clarity, and self-trust.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 This is a judgement free space.
Making Sense of Mixed Messages
About This Event
Making Sense of Mixed Messages is a 30-minute session designed to support AuDHD and neurodivergent adults in navigating confusing, contradictory, or indirect communication with more clarity and confidence.
What To Expect
Brief learning on one specific mixed-message pattern and how it typically shows up in everyday interactions
Explore why these dynamics create doubt, confusion, or cognitive overload
Interactive Q&A and practice with simple scripts for real conversations that align with how you think and communicate
This Is for You If
You often leave conversations feeling confused, doubting yourself, or replaying what was said
You notice mixed signals like indirect requests, emotional pressure, or shifting expectations
You are AuDHD or neurodivergent and want communication tools that match how you actually think and process
What You’ll Walk Away With
Greater awareness of when you are carrying more emotional or conversational load than intended
Clearer ways to respond without overexplaining or shutting down
More confidence in choosing when and how to engage without pressure
TOPIC: Intentional Friendships Without a Clear Path
When friendships are intentional but lack shared direction, uncertainty can build around effort, expectations, and timing. This session focuses on recognizing misalignment early and staying internally oriented while connections unfold.
How to notice when intention is present without mutual direction
How to identify signals that effort is becoming uneven or unclear
How to respond assumption or overextension
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌 Become a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to join the conversation.
Unmasked Conversations
About This Event
Free group coaching for AuDHD and neurodivergent adults seeking authentic, guilt-free relationships.
This Is For You If:
You feel like your relationships are fake but don’t know how to stop performing.
You hate being guilt-tripped but are uncomfortable speaking up.
You find it hard to express yourself because you don’t want to be judged.
You’re not alone.
Get help here.
Every 2nd and 4th Saturday of the month, join Unmasked Conversations.
PS: Patterns of Possibility community members enjoy Unmasked Community Conversations every Saturday with priority to bring topics of discussion.
What To Expect
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
Sessions are limited to just 10 attendees for an intimate discussion.
Two to three people will have a chance to bring a challenge they’re facing.
Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
What You’ll Walk Away With
Whether you come with a question or come to listen, by the end of this session, you will:
Understand why certain interactions feel draining and what to do differently next time
Leave with one clear, practical adjustment you can apply immediately in a real relationship
Experience what it’s like to be heard without judgment in a supportive, structured space
This session is designed to help you move from managing yourself around others to showing up with more ease, clarity, and self-trust.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 This is a judgement free space.
Making Sense of Mixed Messages
About This Event
Making Sense of Mixed Messages is a 30-minute session designed to support AuDHD and neurodivergent adults in navigating confusing, contradictory, or indirect communication with more clarity and confidence.
What To Expect
Brief learning on one specific mixed-message pattern and how it typically shows up in everyday interactions
Explore why these dynamics create doubt, confusion, or cognitive overload
Interactive Q&A and practice with simple scripts for real conversations that align with how you think and communicate
This Is for You If
You often leave conversations feeling confused, doubting yourself, or replaying what was said
You notice mixed signals like indirect requests, emotional pressure, or shifting expectations
You are AuDHD or neurodivergent and want communication tools that match how you actually think and process
What You’ll Walk Away With
Greater awareness of when you are carrying more emotional or conversational load than intended
Clearer ways to respond without overexplaining or shutting down
More confidence in choosing when and how to engage without pressure
TOPIC: Not Alone, Yet Unsupported
Being around others can still feel unsupported when emotional availability, follow-through, or care are inconsistent. This session focuses on recognizing that gap and staying internally aligned while navigating connection.
How to notice the difference between proximity and actual support
How to identify internal signals that indicate unmet relational needs
How to respond without minimizing your experience
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌 Become a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to join the conversation.
CEOS Business Networking Hour March 19, 2026
About This Event
We are business owners who think differently.
At the CEOS Networking you'll meet a mix of late-identified autistic, ADHD and AuDHD entrepreneurs and allies committed to personal and professional growth through collaboration, structure, and actionable insights.
At each event we invite a speaker to share 10 minutes of insight that includes at least one practical step attendees can apply immediately.
What to Expect
We meet for 60 minutes.
Doors open at 9:50am CST / 10:50am EST
We start promptly at 10am CST / 11am EST
→ 10 Minutes - Speaker
→ 5 Minutes - Q&A
→ (2) 15 Minute Breakout Sessions
→ 10 Minutes - Announcements & Shoutouts
Meet Your Hosts
Coach Lee Hopkins, Social Connections Coach for Late Identified Autistic and ADHD professionals.
Becca Block, Neuroaffirming Executive Function Coach for adults who want to get things done without panic, people-pleasing, or procrastination.
Who This Is For
If you’re a business owner who thinks differently, you need to be here.
Building a business is hard.
And the way your brain processes information doesn’t make it any easier.
You can understand what to do and still struggle to do it consistently especially when there's a change in energy, clarity, or context.
→ There’s nothing wrong with you. ←
Most of the standard advice around growth, productivity, and consistency simply doesn’t align with how your mind and nervous system work.
Notice the pattern, make a new possibility.
Stop following advice that wasn't built for you.
Visit the CEOS Business Networking Hour...
→ connect with other business owners with lived experience
→ get support that actually fits how you think
→ walk away with an actionable step to help you succeed today
Our guest speaker is Faith Maduka.
She helps business owners identify their biggest time drains, automate what drains them most, and build systems that work even on the days they do not feel like it.
In this session, you will identify your number one business bottleneck and walk away with a simple 3-step audit to decide what to automate first, without getting lost in tech or overwhelm.
Who We Are
We are an action-oriented Business to Business focused networking group.
We emphasize building and maintaining relationships that open up areas of new business for each other.
At our core, we believe that Collaboration and Education bring new Opportunities that lead to our overall Success.
Who You Are
You are a business owner who wants to build a “like-brained” supportive community.
You are goal oriented and outcome driven.
You are curious, enjoy learning, and appreciate authentic professional connections.
You can commit to spending at least 60 minutes of focused time transforming yourself and business relationships.
What We'll Do Together
Collaboration - Build trust and gain support on growing your business.
Education - Learn best practices in your business based on how your brain works from your peers and industry experts.
Opportunity - Create relationships with referral partners and get more introductions to decision makers.
Success - Grow your business the way you want.
Share Your Expertise
Have a valuable tip or technique that can help your fellow business owners grow?
Apply to speak
We record our speakers. Watch them on YouTube.
Unmasked Community Conversations
About This Event
Patterns of Possibility group coaching for AuDHD and neurodivergent adults seeking authentic, guilt-free relationships.
This Is For You If:
You feel like your relationships are fake but don’t know how to stop performing.
You hate being guilt-tripped but are uncomfortable speaking up.
You find it hard to express yourself because you don’t want to be judged.
You’re not alone.
Get help here.
Community members enjoy Unmasked Community Conversations every Saturday with priority to bring topics of discussion.
What To Expect
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
Sessions are limited to just 10 attendees for an intimate discussion.
Two to three people will have a chance to bring a challenge they’re facing.
Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
What You’ll Walk Away With
Whether you come with a question or come to listen, by the end of this session, you will:
Understand why certain interactions feel draining and what to do differently next time
Leave with one clear, practical adjustment you can apply immediately in a real relationship
Experience what it’s like to be heard without judgment in a supportive, structured space
This session is designed to help you move from managing yourself around others to showing up with more ease, clarity, and self-trust.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 This is a judgement free space.
Making Sense of Mixed Messages
About This Event
Making Sense of Mixed Messages is a 30-minute session designed to support AuDHD and neurodivergent adults in navigating confusing, contradictory, or indirect communication with more clarity and confidence.
What To Expect
Brief learning on one specific mixed-message pattern and how it typically shows up in everyday interactions
Explore why these dynamics create doubt, confusion, or cognitive overload
Interactive Q&A and practice with simple scripts for real conversations that align with how you think and communicate
This Is for You If
You often leave conversations feeling confused, doubting yourself, or replaying what was said
You notice mixed signals like indirect requests, emotional pressure, or shifting expectations
You are AuDHD or neurodivergent and want communication tools that match how you actually think and process
What You’ll Walk Away With
Greater awareness of when you are carrying more emotional or conversational load than intended
Clearer ways to respond without overexplaining or shutting down
More confidence in choosing when and how to engage without pressure
TOPIC: Trying Again After Rejection
After rejection, mixed internal signals can make future attempts at connection feel risky, confusing, or forced. This session focuses on recognizing readiness cues and engaging again with clearer internal reference points.
How to notice when interest in reconnecting is driven by choice rather than pressure
How to identify internal signals that indicate emotional capacity for another attempt
How to respond to uncertainty without abandoning personal limits or pacing
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌 Become a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to join the conversation.
Unmasked Conversations
About This Event
Free group coaching for AuDHD and neurodivergent adults seeking authentic, guilt-free relationships.
This Is For You If:
You feel like your relationships are fake but don’t know how to stop performing.
You hate being guilt-tripped but are uncomfortable speaking up.
You find it hard to express yourself because you don’t want to be judged.
You’re not alone.
Get help here.
Every 2nd and 4th Saturday of the month, join Unmasked Conversations.
PS: Patterns of Possibility community members enjoy Unmasked Community Conversations every Saturday with priority to bring topics of discussion.
What To Expect
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
Sessions are limited to just 10 attendees for an intimate discussion.
Two to three people will have a chance to bring a challenge they’re facing.
Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
What You’ll Walk Away With
Whether you come with a question or come to listen, by the end of this session, you will:
Understand why certain interactions feel draining and what to do differently next time
Leave with one clear, practical adjustment you can apply immediately in a real relationship
Experience what it’s like to be heard without judgment in a supportive, structured space
This session is designed to help you move from managing yourself around others to showing up with more ease, clarity, and self-trust.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 This is a judgement free space.
Structured Social Hour - March 2026
About This Event
Free group event for neurodivergent autistic, ADHD and AuDHD adults seeking safe, meaningful friendships.
If you want conversation that feels easier, safer, and more predictable, join us on the last Sundays of the month for the Structured Social Hour.
This is your place to practice connection with confidence and meet others who value meaningful conversation.
We know it can be difficult to know what to say so we practice structure that helps you show up as your real self.
What To Expect
→ Clear prompts so you always know where to begin
→ Gentle timing so you never feel stuck
→ Brief one on one conversations with meaningful topics
PLEASE NOTE: To keep the one-on-one format running smoothly, we can’t let people in after the first five minutes. We appreciate your understanding and encourage you to arrive a little early.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 1:50pm CST.
📌 Connections deepens when we can both see and hear you. For that reason, cameras are required to be on to attend.
Making Sense of Mixed Messages
About This Event
Making Sense of Mixed Messages is a 30-minute session designed to support AuDHD and neurodivergent adults in navigating confusing, contradictory, or indirect communication with more clarity and confidence.
What To Expect
Brief learning on one specific mixed-message pattern and how it typically shows up in everyday interactions
Explore why these dynamics create doubt, confusion, or cognitive overload
Interactive Q&A and practice with simple scripts for real conversations that align with how you think and communicate
This Is for You If
You often leave conversations feeling confused, doubting yourself, or replaying what was said
You notice mixed signals like indirect requests, emotional pressure, or shifting expectations
You are AuDHD or neurodivergent and want communication tools that match how you actually think and process
What You’ll Walk Away With
Greater awareness of when you are carrying more emotional or conversational load than intended
Clearer ways to respond without overexplaining or shutting down
More confidence in choosing when and how to engage without pressure
TOPIC: Tell The Truth or Bury It?
Confusion develops when directness is requested and then met with discomfort, defensiveness, or withdrawal. This session builds skills for navigating honesty requests while staying oriented to what is actually safe and workable in the interaction.
How to notice when honesty is invited conditionally or selectively
How to identify what level of truth is being received without social fallout
How to respond to honesty requests with clarity about scope and impact
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌 Become a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to join the conversation.
Unmasked Community Conversations
About This Event
Patterns of Possibility group coaching for AuDHD and neurodivergent adults seeking authentic, guilt-free relationships.
This Is For You If:
You feel like your relationships are fake but don’t know how to stop performing.
You hate being guilt-tripped but are uncomfortable speaking up.
You find it hard to express yourself because you don’t want to be judged.
You’re not alone.
Get help here.
Community members enjoy Unmasked Community Conversations every Saturday with priority to bring topics of discussion.
What To Expect
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
Sessions are limited to just 10 attendees for an intimate discussion.
Two to three people will have a chance to bring a challenge they’re facing.
Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
What You’ll Walk Away With
Whether you come with a question or come to listen, by the end of this session, you will:
Understand why certain interactions feel draining and what to do differently next time
Leave with one clear, practical adjustment you can apply immediately in a real relationship
Experience what it’s like to be heard without judgment in a supportive, structured space
This session is designed to help you move from managing yourself around others to showing up with more ease, clarity, and self-trust.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 This is a judgement free space.
CEOS Business Networking Hour
About This Event
We are business owners who think differently.
At the CEOS Networking you'll meet a mix of late-identified autistic, ADHD and AuDHD entrepreneurs and allies committed to personal and professional growth through collaboration, structure, and actionable insights.
At each event we invite a speaker to share 10 minutes of insight that includes at least one practical step attendees can apply immediately.
What to Expect
We meet for 60 minutes.
Doors open at 9:50am CST (We start promptly at 10am CST.)
→ 10 Minutes - Speaker
→ 5 Minutes - Q&A
→ (2) 15 Minute Breakout Sessions
→ 10 Minutes - Announcements & Shoutouts
Our guest speaker is Becca Block, PhD.
Becca is a researcher, educator, neuroaffirming executive function coach and founder of Spicy Brains.
She helped her clients navigate procrastination, motivation, time management, and follow-through using practical, strengths-based strategies.
With experience in higher education and nonprofit leadership, Becca brings research and real-world insight to her work.
She is neurodivergent herself and offers grounded guidance that helps people discover what works for them.
In her talk, “Fresh starts: Dropping the norms that don't work for you to make room for what does” attendees will learn how to spot the hidden norms they’ve been following without choosing.
They’ll be able to begin to identify what it feels like in their bodies/minds when something doesn't fit and create space for experimentation to discover what could work better instead.
Connect with her on LinkedIn.
Visit her website: spicy-brains.com
Who We Are
We are an action-oriented Business to Business focused networking group.
We emphasize building and maintaining relationships that open up areas of new business for each other.
At our core, we believe that Collaboration and Education bring new Opportunities that lead to our overall Success.
Who You Are
You're a business owner who wants to build a “like-brained” supportive community.
You're goal oriented and outcome driven.
You have a growth mindset with a go-giver attitude.
What We'll Do Together
Collaboration - Build trust and gain support on growing your business.
Education - Learn best practices in your business based on how your brain works from your peers and industry experts.
Opportunity - Create relationships with referral partners and get more introductions to decision makers.
Success - Grow your business the way you want.
Share Your Expertise
Have a valuable tip or technique that can help your fellow business owners grow?
Apply to speak
We record our speakers. Watch them on YouTube.
Making Sense of Mixed Messages
About This Event
Making Sense of Mixed Messages is a 30-minute session designed to support AuDHD and neurodivergent adults in navigating confusing, contradictory, or indirect communication with more clarity and confidence.
What To Expect
Brief learning on one specific mixed-message pattern and how it typically shows up in everyday interactions
Explore why these dynamics create doubt, confusion, or cognitive overload
Interactive Q&A and practice with simple scripts for real conversations that align with how you think and communicate
This Is for You If
You often leave conversations feeling confused, doubting yourself, or replaying what was said
You notice mixed signals like indirect requests, emotional pressure, or shifting expectations
You are AuDHD or neurodivergent and want communication tools that match how you actually think and process
What You’ll Walk Away With
Greater awareness of when you are carrying more emotional or conversational load than intended
Clearer ways to respond without overexplaining or shutting down
More confidence in choosing when and how to engage without pressure
TOPIC: When "You Can Talk to Me Anytime" Doesn't Mean Anytime
Mixed signals occur when availability is stated while responses suggest strain, delay, or irritation. This session focuses on building skills to interpret and respond to these moments without overreaching or self-censoring.
How to notice patterns between offered availability and actual responsiveness
How to identify what level of access is realistically being offered
How to clarify communication windows and expectations without apologizing
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌 Become a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to join the conversation.
Unmasked Conversations
About This Event
Free group coaching for AuDHD and neurodivergent adults seeking authentic, guilt-free relationships.
This Is For You If:
You feel like your relationships are fake but don’t know how to stop performing.
You hate being guilt-tripped but are uncomfortable speaking up.
You find it hard to express yourself because you don’t want to be judged.
You’re not alone.
Get help here.
Every 2nd and 4th Saturday of the month, join Unmasked Conversations.
PS: Patterns of Possibility community members enjoy Unmasked Community Conversations every Saturday with priority to bring topics of discussion.
What To Expect
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
Sessions are limited to just 10 attendees for an intimate discussion.
Two to three people will have a chance to bring a challenge they’re facing.
Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
What You’ll Walk Away With
Whether you come with a question or come to listen, by the end of this session, you will:
Understand why certain interactions feel draining and what to do differently next time
Leave with one clear, practical adjustment you can apply immediately in a real relationship
Experience what it’s like to be heard without judgment in a supportive, structured space
This session is designed to help you move from managing yourself around others to showing up with more ease, clarity, and self-trust.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 This is a judgement free space.
Making Sense of Mixed Messages
About This Event
Making Sense of Mixed Messages is a 30-minute session designed to support AuDHD and neurodivergent adults in navigating confusing, contradictory, or indirect communication with more clarity and confidence.
What To Expect
Brief learning on one specific mixed-message pattern and how it typically shows up in everyday interactions
Explore why these dynamics create doubt, confusion, or cognitive overload
Interactive Q&A and practice with simple scripts for real conversations that align with how you think and communicate
This Is for You If
You often leave conversations feeling confused, doubting yourself, or replaying what was said
You notice mixed signals like indirect requests, emotional pressure, or shifting expectations
You are AuDHD or neurodivergent and want communication tools that match how you actually think and process
What You’ll Walk Away With
Greater awareness of when you are carrying more emotional or conversational load than intended
Clearer ways to respond without overexplaining or shutting down
More confidence in choosing when and how to engage without pressure
TOPIC: Is “Just Be Yourself” Real?
Confusion arises when authenticity is encouraged while difference is corrected, limited, or penalized. This session supports clearer understanding of these signals and skillful responses that protect your sense of self in social spaces.
How to notice when acceptance language conflicts with social feedback or outcomes
How to identify which parts of yourself are being welcomed in a given context
How to choose when and how to share yourself with clarity and internal alignment
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌 Become a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to join the conversation.
Unmasked Community Conversations
About This Event
Patterns of Possibility group coaching for AuDHD and neurodivergent adults seeking authentic, guilt-free relationships.
This Is For You If:
You feel like your relationships are fake but don’t know how to stop performing.
You hate being guilt-tripped but are uncomfortable speaking up.
You find it hard to express yourself because you don’t want to be judged.
You’re not alone.
Get help here.
Community members enjoy Unmasked Community Conversations every Saturday with priority to bring topics of discussion.
What To Expect
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
Sessions are limited to just 10 attendees for an intimate discussion.
Two to three people will have a chance to bring a challenge they’re facing.
Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
What You’ll Walk Away With
Whether you come with a question or come to listen, by the end of this session, you will:
Understand why certain interactions feel draining and what to do differently next time
Leave with one clear, practical adjustment you can apply immediately in a real relationship
Experience what it’s like to be heard without judgment in a supportive, structured space
This session is designed to help you move from managing yourself around others to showing up with more ease, clarity, and self-trust.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 This is a judgement free space.
CEOS Business Networking Hour
About This Event
We are business owners who think differently.
At the CEOS Networking you'll meet a mix of late-identified autistic, ADHD and AuDHD entrepreneurs and allies committed to personal and professional growth through collaboration, structure, and actionable insights.
At each event we invite a speaker to share 10 minutes of insight that includes at least one practical step attendees can apply immediately.
Who This Is For
If you’re a business owner who thinks differently, you need to be here.
Building a business is hard.
And the way your brain processes information doesn’t make it any easier.
You can understand what to do and still struggle to do it consistently especially when there's a change in energy, clarity, or context.
→ There’s nothing wrong with you. ←
Most of the standard advice around growth, productivity, and consistency simply doesn’t align with how your mind and nervous system work.
Notice the pattern, make a new possibility.
Stop following advice that wasn't built for you.
Visit the CEOS Business Networking Hour...
→ connect with other business owners with lived experience
→ get support that actually fits how you think
→ walk away with an actionable step to help you succeed today
What to Expect
We meet for 60 minutes.
Doors open at 9:50am CST (We start promptly at 10am CST.)
→ 10 Minutes - Speaker
→ 5 Minutes - Q&A
→ (2) 15 Minute Breakout Sessions
→ 10 Minutes - Announcements & Shoutouts
Our guest speaker is Sharon Ringier.
Sharon teaches why consistency creates results long before perfection ever does. She breaks down the myth of overnight success and shows how imperfect action builds trust, credibility, and real momentum.
Attendees will walk away ready to take intentional steps toward their vision instead of waiting to “feel ready.”
After her talk, you’ll choose one meaningful goal and take a small action toward it as soon as inspiration strikes.
Connect with her on LinkedIn.
Who We Are
We are an action-oriented Business to Business focused networking group.
We emphasize building and maintaining relationships that open up areas of new business for each other.
At our core, we believe that Collaboration and Education bring new Opportunities that lead to our overall Success.
Who You Are
You're a business owner who wants to build a “like-brained” supportive community.
You're goal oriented and outcome driven.
You have a growth mindset with a go-giver attitude.
What We'll Do Together
Collaboration - Build trust and gain support on growing your business.
Education - Learn best practices in your business based on how your brain works from your peers and industry experts.
Opportunity - Create relationships with referral partners and get more introductions to decision makers.
Success - Grow your business the way you want.
Share Your Expertise
Have a valuable tip or technique that can help your fellow business owners grow?
Apply to speak
We record our speakers. Watch them on YouTube.
Making Sense of Mixed Messages
About This Event
Making Sense of Mixed Messages is a 30-minute session designed to support AuDHD and neurodivergent adults in navigating confusing, contradictory, or indirect communication with more clarity and confidence.
What To Expect
Brief learning on one specific mixed-message pattern and how it typically shows up in everyday interactions
Explore why these dynamics create doubt, confusion, or cognitive overload
Interactive Q&A and practice with simple scripts for real conversations that align with how you think and communicate
This Is for You If
You often leave conversations feeling confused, doubting yourself, or replaying what was said
You notice mixed signals like indirect requests, emotional pressure, or shifting expectations
You are AuDHD or neurodivergent and want communication tools that match how you actually think and process
What You’ll Walk Away With
Greater awareness of when you are carrying more emotional or conversational load than intended
Clearer ways to respond without overexplaining or shutting down
More confidence in choosing when and how to engage without pressure
TOPIC: “It’s Fine” When It Isn’t
Many interactions become confusing when words signal resolution while tone, behavior, or energy suggest something unresolved. This session focuses on building skills to respond to emotional mismatch without guessing, fixing, or withdrawing.
How to notice discrepancies between spoken words and nonverbal cues
How to identify what information is missing before responding or adjusting yourself
How to address emotional tension directly without escalating or overfunctioning
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌 Become a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to join the conversation.
Guided Coaching Moment
About This Event
Be the lucky member of the Patterns of Possibility community who receives 30 minutes of personalized coaching in supported by your peers.
Get Guided If
You want a single, focused coaching experience without an ongoing commitment.
You are willing to practice vulnerability and demonstrate what it looks like to work through your challenges.
Be A Supportive Participant If
You are willing to learn from your peer’s experience while providing encouragement.
Community members have access to a Guided Coaching Moment on the 1st Mondays of the month.
What To Expect
In this half-hour session, one Patterns of Possibility community member will get actionable guidance they can use right away.
Sessions are limited to just 5 attendees for an intimate atmosphere.
Guidance comes from the coach only.
Additional encouragement and understanding will come from peers.
A shame-free space to be honest and real.
What You’ll Walk Away With
Whether this is your moment or you’ve come to listen, by the end of this session, you will:
Understand why certain interactions feel draining and what to do differently next time
Leave with one clear, practical adjustment you can apply immediately in a real relationship
Experience what it’s like to be heard without judgment in a supportive, structured space
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 This is a judgement free space.
Unmasked Community Conversations
About This Event
Patterns of Possibility group coaching for AuDHD and neurodivergent adults seeking authentic, guilt-free relationships.
This Is For You If:
You feel like your relationships are fake but don’t know how to stop performing.
You hate being guilt-tripped but are uncomfortable speaking up.
You find it hard to express yourself because you don’t want to be judged.
You’re not alone.
Get help here.
Community members enjoy Unmasked Community Conversations every Saturday with priority to bring topics of discussion.
What To Expect
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
Sessions are limited to just 10 attendees for an intimate discussion.
Two to three people will have a chance to bring a challenge they’re facing.
Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
What You’ll Walk Away With
Whether you come with a question or come to listen, by the end of this session, you will:
Understand why certain interactions feel draining and what to do differently next time
Leave with one clear, practical adjustment you can apply immediately in a real relationship
Experience what it’s like to be heard without judgment in a supportive, structured space
This session is designed to help you move from managing yourself around others to showing up with more ease, clarity, and self-trust.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 This is a judgement free space.
Making Sense of Mixed Messages
About This Event
Making Sense of Mixed Messages is a 30-minute session designed to support AuDHD and neurodivergent adults in navigating confusing, contradictory, or indirect communication with more clarity and confidence.
What To Expect
Brief learning on one specific mixed-message pattern and how it typically shows up in everyday interactions
Explore why these dynamics create doubt, confusion, or cognitive overload
Interactive Q&A and practice with simple scripts for real conversations that align with how you think and communicate
This Is for You If
You often leave conversations feeling confused, doubting yourself, or replaying what was said
You notice mixed signals like indirect requests, emotional pressure, or shifting expectations
You are AuDHD or neurodivergent and want communication tools that match how you actually think and process
What You’ll Walk Away With
Greater awareness of when you are carrying more emotional or conversational load than intended
Clearer ways to respond without overexplaining or shutting down
More confidence in choosing when and how to engage without pressure
TOPIC: The Burden of Being “The Strong Friend”
Being seen as the reliable or capable person often leads to unspoken expectations, uneven support, and confusion about what is actually mutual. This session focuses on recognizing how “the strong friend” role can be a form of masking that disconnects you from others.
How to notice when others rely on your strength without checking your capacity
How to identify your needs and limits while staying connected to the relationship
How to communicate support boundaries in a way that invites shared responsibility
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌 Become a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to join the conversation.
Structured Social Hour - January 2026
About This Event
Free group event for neurodivergent autistic, ADHD and AuDHD adults seeking safe, meaningful friendships.
If you want conversation that feels easier, safer, and more predictable, join us on the last Sundays of the month for the Structured Social Hour.
This is your place to practice connection with confidence and meet others who value meaningful conversation.
We know it can be difficult to know what to say so we practice structure that helps you show up as your real self.
What To Expect
→ Clear prompts so you always know where to begin
→ Gentle timing so you never feel stuck
→ Brief one on one conversations with meaningful topics
PLEASE NOTE: To keep the one-on-one format running smoothly, we can’t let people in after the first five minutes. We appreciate your understanding and encourage you to arrive a little early.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 1:50pm CST.
📌 Connections deepens when we can both see and hear you. For that reason, cameras are required to be on to attend.
Unmasked Conversations
About This Event
Free group coaching for AuDHD and neurodivergent adults seeking authentic, guilt-free relationships.
This Is For You If:
You feel like your relationships are fake but don’t know how to stop performing.
You hate being guilt-tripped but are uncomfortable speaking up.
You find it hard to express yourself because you don’t want to be judged.
You’re not alone.
Get help here.
Every 2nd and 4th Saturday of the month, join Unmasked Conversations.
PS: Patterns of Possibility community members enjoy Unmasked Community Conversations every Saturday with priority to bring topics of discussion.
What To Expect
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
Sessions are limited to just 10 attendees for an intimate discussion.
Two to three people will have a chance to bring a challenge they’re facing.
Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
What You’ll Walk Away With
Whether you come with a question or come to listen, by the end of this session, you will:
Understand why certain interactions feel draining and what to do differently next time
Leave with one clear, practical adjustment you can apply immediately in a real relationship
Experience what it’s like to be heard without judgment in a supportive, structured space
This session is designed to help you move from managing yourself around others to showing up with more ease, clarity, and self-trust.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 This is a judgement free space.
Making Sense of Mixed Messages
About This Event
Making Sense of Mixed Messages is a 30-minute session designed to support AuDHD and neurodivergent adults in navigating confusing, contradictory, or indirect communication with more clarity and confidence.
What To Expect
Brief learning on one specific mixed-message pattern and how it typically shows up in everyday interactions
Explore why these dynamics create doubt, confusion, or cognitive overload
Interactive Q&A and practice with simple scripts for real conversations that align with how you think and communicate
This Is for You If
You often leave conversations feeling confused, doubting yourself, or replaying what was said
You notice mixed signals like indirect requests, emotional pressure, or shifting expectations
You are AuDHD or neurodivergent and want communication tools that match how you actually think and process
What You’ll Walk Away With
Greater awareness of when you are carrying more emotional or conversational load than intended
Clearer ways to respond without overexplaining or shutting down
More confidence in choosing when and how to engage without pressure
TOPIC: When You’re Too Much But Also Not Enough
Some conversations lose energy when people downplay their interests, routines, or desires to appear acceptable or avoid disruption. This session explores how this pattern creates distance and how to relate to everyday life with more presence and engagement.
How to notice when you minimize parts of your daily life to fit into an interaction
How to identify what genuinely holds your interest without performing enthusiasm
How to communicate preferences and rhythms in ways others can respond to clearly
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌 Become a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to join the conversation.
Unmasked Community Conversations
About This Event
Patterns of Possibility group coaching for AuDHD and neurodivergent adults seeking authentic, guilt-free relationships.
This Is For You If:
You feel like your relationships are fake but don’t know how to stop performing.
You hate being guilt-tripped but are uncomfortable speaking up.
You find it hard to express yourself because you don’t want to be judged.
You’re not alone.
Get help here.
Community members enjoy Unmasked Community Conversations every Saturday with priority to bring topics of discussion.
What To Expect
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
Sessions are limited to just 10 attendees for an intimate discussion.
Two to three people will have a chance to bring a challenge they’re facing.
Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
What You’ll Walk Away With
Whether you come with a question or come to listen, by the end of this session, you will:
Understand why certain interactions feel draining and what to do differently next time
Leave with one clear, practical adjustment you can apply immediately in a real relationship
Experience what it’s like to be heard without judgment in a supportive, structured space
This session is designed to help you move from managing yourself around others to showing up with more ease, clarity, and self-trust.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 This is a judgement free space.
Making Sense of Mixed Messages
About This Event
Making Sense of Mixed Messages is a 30-minute session designed to support AuDHD and neurodivergent adults in navigating confusing, contradictory, or indirect communication with more clarity and confidence.
What To Expect
Brief learning on one specific mixed-message pattern and how it typically shows up in everyday interactions
Explore why these dynamics create doubt, confusion, or cognitive overload
Interactive Q&A and practice with simple scripts for real conversations that align with how you think and communicate
This Is for You If
You often leave conversations feeling confused, doubting yourself, or replaying what was said
You notice mixed signals like indirect requests, emotional pressure, or shifting expectations
You are AuDHD or neurodivergent and want communication tools that match how you actually think and process
What You’ll Walk Away With
Greater awareness of when you are carrying more emotional or conversational load than intended
Clearer ways to respond without overexplaining or shutting down
More confidence in choosing when and how to engage without pressure
TOPIC: Saying the Quiet Part Out Loud
Many interactions break down when important information stays implied, hinted at, or held back, leaving people confused about what is actually expected or felt. This session focuses on building capacity to speak what is present in a clear, grounded way when silence creates tension or misalignment.
How to notice when unspoken expectations or assumptions are shaping an interaction
How to identify the words that accurately reflect what you are experiencing without overexplaining
How to express direct statements while staying regulated and oriented to the moment
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌 Become a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to join the conversation.
Unmasked Conversations
About This Event
Free group coaching for AuDHD and neurodivergent adults seeking authentic, guilt-free relationships.
This Is For You If:
You feel like your relationships are fake but don’t know how to stop performing.
You hate being guilt-tripped but are uncomfortable speaking up.
You find it hard to express yourself because you don’t want to be judged.
You’re not alone.
Get help here.
Every 2nd and 4th Saturday of the month, join Unmasked Conversations.
What To Expect
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
Sessions are limited to just 10 attendees for an intimate discussion.
Two to three people will have a chance to bring a challenge they’re facing.
Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
What You’ll Walk Away With
Whether you come with a question or come to listen, by the end of this session, you will:
Understand why certain interactions feel draining and what to do differently next time
Leave with one clear, practical adjustment you can apply immediately in a real relationship
Experience what it’s like to be heard without judgment in a supportive, structured space
This session is designed to help you move from managing yourself around others to showing up with more ease, clarity, and self-trust.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 This is a judgement free space.
CEOS Networking Group
About This Event
We are business owners who think differently.
At the CEOS Networking you'll meet a mix of late-identified autistic and ADHD entrepreneurs and allies committed to personal and professional grow through collaboration, structure, and actionable insights.
At each event we invite a speaker to share 10 minutes of insight that includes at least one practical step attendees can apply immediately.
Our guest speaker is Vickie Griffith.
Vickie Griffith shows sensitive, introverted entrepreneurs that they can succeed without loud strategies or burnout.
She shares how a business built on reflection, energy, and genuine connection can create results that feel sustainable.
Attendees will leave knowing success is possible for who they are right now and will choose one aligned next step that feels natural to them.
Connect with her on LinkedIn.
What to Expect
We meet for 60 minutes.
Doors open at 9:50am CST (We start promptly at 10am CST.)
→ 10 Minutes - Speaker
→ 5 Minutes - Q&A
→ (2) 15 Minute Breakout Sessions
→ 10 Minutes - Announcements & Shoutouts
Who We Are
We are an action-oriented Business to Business focused networking group.
We emphasize building and maintaining relationships that open up areas of new business for each other.
At our core, we believe that Collaboration and Education bring new Opportunities that lead to our overall Success.
Who You Are
You're a business owner whose clients are primarily other business owners (not necessarily organizations but other small businesses and solopreneurs).
You're goal oriented and outcome driven.
You have a growth mindset with a go-giver attitude.
What We'll Do Together
Collaboration - Build trust and gain support on growing your business.
Education - Learn best practices in your business and how to strengthen business relationships from peers and industry experts.
Opportunity - Create relationships with referral partners and get more introductions to decision makers.
Success - Grow your business the way you want.
Share Your Expertise
We invite speakers who can help late-identified autistic and ADHD business owners and those who think differently grow through collaboration, structure, and actionable insights.
Each talk is 10 minutes long and must include at least one practical step attendees can apply immediately.
Apply to speak
Making Sense of Mixed Messages
About This Event
Making Sense of Mixed Messages is a 30-minute session designed to help you understand confusing or contradictory communication and respond with greater clarity and self-trust.
Coach Lee breaks down the key traits of a specific pattern, such as gaslighting or breadcrumbing, so you can recognize what’s happening and why it feels unsettling.
In the remaining time, you’ll work through simple scripts and practical strategies you can apply in real situations to reduce harm, set clearer boundaries, and respond in ways that feel steady and aligned.
TOPIC: Emotional Baiting
Emotional baiting can leave you feeling reactive, confused, or questioning your own boundaries. In this 30-minute session, we’ll explore three insights that help you recognize what is happening and respond with clarity:
How emotional baiting develops when people use tone, timing, or vulnerability to pull reactions instead of having direct conversations.
How this pattern affects your relationships by keeping you in emotional loops where you explain, defend, or overextend.
How to stay grounded in yourself so you can disengage calmly and choose connection that feels steady instead of charged.
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌You must be a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to attend.
Lesson with Coach Lee (Community Only)
Join our weekly session where Coach Lee shares practical tools and insight that make relationships feel easier.
TOPIC: Owning Your Differences
Feeling “different” can make you question where you fit and whether people will understand you. In this 30-minute session, we’ll explore three insights that help you see your uniqueness with more clarity and confidence:
How the idea of being different forms when your interests, reactions, or pace never matched the people around you.
How this belief shapes your relationships by making you hide parts of yourself or overthink how you come across.
How to feel grounded in your uniqueness so your differences become a source of connection instead of worry.
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌You must be a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to attend.
Structured Social Hour - December 2025
About This Event
If you want conversation to feel easier, safer, and more predictable, you’re invited to join us on the last Sundays of the month for the Structured Social Hour.
This space is built for neurodivergent ways of thinking. Instead of guessing what to say or how to jump in, you’ll be guided by clear prompts and gentle structure that take the pressure off.
You can practice connecting at your own pace, meet others who care about meaningful conversation, and show up as yourself without performing, masking, or forcing small talk.
If you want conversation that feels easier, safer, and more predictable, join us on the last Sundays of the month for the Structured Social Hour.
This is your place to practice connection with confidence and meet others who value meaningful conversation.
We know it can be difficult to know what to say so we practice structure that helps you show up as your real self.
What To Expect
→ One on one conversations that last five to seven minutes
→ Clear prompts so you always know where to begin
→ Gentle timing so you never feel stuck
PLEASE NOTE: To keep the one-on-one format running smoothly, we can’t let people in after the first five minutes. We appreciate your understanding and encourage you to arrive a little early.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 1:50pm CST.
📌 Cameras are required to be on to attend. We want to see your beautiful face.
Open Coaching
About This Event
Got questions about your relationships?
Come try it out.
Every 2nd and 4th Saturday of the month join us for Open Coaching.
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
What To Expect
→ Sessions are limited to 10 attendees.
→ Two to three people will have a chance to bring a question.
→ Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
You’ll get a feel for the supportive environment inside the Patterns of Possibility community and leave with clarity and a practical next step toward stronger, more authentic connections.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 Cameras are required to be on to attend. We want to see your beautiful face.
Lesson with Coach Lee (Community Only)
Join our weekly session where Coach Lee shares practical tools and insight that make relationships feel easier.
TOPIC: Autonomy and Self-Trust
Autonomy and self-trust help you feel steady in your decisions, but they’re hard to build when doubt has been your default for years. In this 30-minute session, we’ll explore three insights that strengthen your confidence from the inside out:
How autonomy develops when you understand your own preferences and allow them to guide your choices.
How self-trust grows through small, consistent actions that show you you can rely on yourself.
How relying on your inner signals strengthens your relationships by helping you communicate with clarity instead of second-guessing.
We’ll close with a short Q+A so you can get direct support for what you’re working on now.
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌You must be a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to attend.
Open Coaching (Community Only)
About This Event
Got questions about your relationships?
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
What To Expect
→ Two to three people will have a chance to bring a question.
→ Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
You’ll get a feel for the supportive environment inside the Patterns of Possibility community and leave with clarity and a practical next step toward stronger, more authentic connections.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌You must be a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to attend.
Lesson with Coach Lee (Community Only)
Join our weekly session where Coach Lee shares practical tools and insight that make relationships feel easier.
TOPIC: When Authenticity is Hard
Authenticity and integrity help you feel aligned, but they can be hard to hold when you’re worried about how others will respond. In this 30-minute session, we’ll explore three core insights that make it easier to show up as your real self:
How authenticity starts with inner honesty and recognizing what you truly want and need.
How integrity guides your choices so your actions match your values, even under pressure.
How to express yourself with clarity in a way that strengthens trust and deepens your relationships.
We’ll close with a short Q+A so you can get direct support for what you’re navigating.
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌You must be a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to attend.
Open Coaching
About This Event
Got questions about your relationships?
Come try it out.
Every 2nd and 4th Saturday of the month join us for Open Coaching.
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
What To Expect
→ Sessions are limited to 10 attendees.
→ Two to three people will have a chance to bring a question.
→ Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
You’ll get a feel for the supportive environment inside the Patterns of Possibility community and leave with clarity and a practical next step toward stronger, more authentic connections.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌 Cameras are required to be on to attend. We want to see your beautiful face.
Lesson with Coach Lee (Community Only)
Join our weekly session where Coach Lee shares practical tools and insight that make relationships feel easier.
TOPIC: Overprocessing and Overwhelm
Exhaustion and burnout can make it hard to show up as the version of yourself you want to be. In this 30-minute session, we’ll look at three key insights that bring clarity to what’s draining you and how to rebuild your energy:
How chronic overwhelm wears down your mind and body even when you think you’re “pushing through.”
How burnout affects your relationships by making communication, boundaries, and connection feel harder.
How to restore your energy with small, sustainable shifts that help you feel steadier and more grounded.
We’ll close with a short Q+A so you can get direct support for what you need right now.
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌You must be a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to attend.
Open Coaching (Community Only)
About This Event
Got questions about your relationships?
In this half-hour session, multiple attendees get quick, actionable guidance they can use right away.
What To Expect
→ Two to three people will have a chance to bring a question.
→ Each person gets about five to seven minutes of focused, one-on-one coaching.
You’ll get a feel for the supportive environment inside the Patterns of Possibility community and leave with clarity and a practical next step toward stronger, more authentic connections.
Doors open 10 minutes before at 11:50am CST.
📌You must be a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to attend.
CEOS Networking Group
About This Event
We are autistic and ADHD business owners committed to personal and professional grow through collaboration, structure, and actionable insights.
At each event we usually invite a speaker to share 10 minutes of insight that includes at least one practical step attendees can apply immediately. But this month we’ll have a special year-end round robin conversation.
What to Expect
We’ll meet for 60 minutes.
Doors open at 9:50am CST (We start promptly at 10am CST.)
→ 10 Minutes - Speaker
→ 5 Minutes - Q&A
→ (2) 15 Minute Breakout Sessions
→ 10 Minutes - Announcements & Shoutouts
Who We Are
We are an action-oriented Business to Business focused networking group.
We emphasize building and maintaining relationships that open up areas of new business for each other.
At our core, we believe that Collaboration and Education bring new Opportunities that lead to our overall Success.
Who You Are
You're a business owner whose clients are primarily other business owners (not necessarily organizations but other small businesses and solopreneurs).
You're goal oriented and outcome driven.
You have a growth mindset with a go-giver attitude.
What We'll Do Together
Collaboration - Build trust and gain support on growing your business.
Education - Learn best practices in your business and how to strengthen business relationships from peers and industry experts.
Opportunity - Create relationships with referral partners and get more introductions to decision makers.
Success - Grow your business the way you want.
Share Your Expertise
We invite speakers who can help autistic and ADHD business owners grow through collaboration, structure, and actionable insights.
Each talk is 10 minutes long and must include at least one practical step attendees can apply immediately.
To be eligible to speak, you must have attended at least 1 event.
Apply to speak
Lesson with Coach Lee (Community Only)
Join our weekly session where Coach Lee shares practical tools and insight that make relationships feel easier.
TOPIC: Exhausted from Conversations
Conversation fatigue can make even warm interactions feel draining. In this 30-minute session, we’ll explore three insights that help you understand why communication feels tiring and how to make it feel easier:
How mental and emotional overload builds during conversations and why your brain feels drained afterward.
How masking, overthinking, or managing others’ reactions increases exhaustion even when the conversation seems simple.
How to create communication habits that protect your energy so connection feels manageable instead of overwhelming.
We’ll close with a short Q+A so you can get direct support for what you're navigating right now.
Join the conversation every Tuesday at 6pm CST.
📌You must be a member of the Patterns of Possibility community to attend.